Optimism: Activity Center

Use these fun, family-friendly activities and games for kids to get them thinking positive. There are activities for all age levels, so try one with your child today.

Summer Picnic - For Dinner!

Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness, Goal Setting/Hope, Resilience, Empowerment

Starting school again can be stressful on a lot of kids. So grab a picnic blanket, throw it over your dinner table, and delve into your favorite summer memories with this simple activity.

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    Finding Your "Flow"

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness, Goal Setting/Hope, Resilience, Empowerment

    "Flow" occurs when you are fully immersed in an activity. We can help children experience "Flow" by identifying activities that require them to use their strengths, skills, and talents to the max.

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    • All Ages

    Be the Change!

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness, Goal Setting/Hope, Resilience, Empowerment

    Summer is a great time for a family service project to teach social responsibility. To get started, use the “Be the Change” worksheet to brainstorm and identify an appropriate project.

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    • Grades 3-5
    • Grades 5 & Up

    Keeping Summer Learning

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness, Goal Setting/Hope, Resilience, Empowerment

    We do things to keep learning from fading during the summer, but have you ever thought of doing the opposite - helping your kids keep their “summer learning” from fading during the school year?

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    • All Ages

    101 Things to Do Before the End of Summer

    Ingredient: Optimism, Goal Setting/Hope, Empowerment

    Make the most of summer free time by making a list of things your family wants to do, not has to do.

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    • All Ages

    I Spy Spring

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness, Goal Setting/Hope, Resilience

    Savor spring and relish in positive emotions with this family-fun, easy new game.

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    • All Ages

    Good News Stories

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness, Goal Setting/Hope, Resilience, Empowerment

    Help your children focus on the good in the world with this optimistic family-fun activity.

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    • All Ages

    Set a Strengths Goal

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness, Goal Setting/Hope, Resilience, Empowerment

    To build a strength, you have to practice! Pick a strength with your child, then make a few weekly goals to improve it.

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    • Kindergarten - Grade 2
    • Grades 3-5
    • Grades 5 & Up

    Strengths-in-Action Bulletin Board

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness, Goal Setting/Hope, Resilience, Empowerment

    This is a great way to help your kids recognize their strengths, and help them notice strengths in others, too!

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    • Kindergarten - Grade 2
    • Grades 3-5
    • Grades 5 & Up

    Love List

    Ingredient: Emotional Awareness, Optimism, Empowerment

    Make a "Love List" with your kids. Decorate it with words, drawings, and photos that represent all the different ways you and your child love each other.

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    • Pre-K and Younger
    • Kindergarten - Grade 2
    • Grades 3-5

    Create a Family Ritual

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness, Goal Setting/Hope, Resilience, Empowerment

    Here are some ideas for creating family rituals and traditions. Include your children in so that everyone enjoys them!

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    • All Ages

    End of Year Reflections

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness, Goal Setting/Hope, Resilience, Empowerment

    An End-of-Year family ritual for your family to reflect and build upon Fishful Thinking skills.

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    • Kindergarten - Grade 2
    • Grades 3-5
    • Grades 5 & Up

    School Year Poster

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness, Goal Setting/Hope, Resilience, Empowerment

    Reflect on accomplishments of the past school year and make goals for the next one with this simple poster activity.

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    • Kindergarten - Grade 2
    • Grades 3-5
    • Grades 5 & Up

    Create an Awe Wall

    Ingredient: Emotional Awareness, Optimism

    Create an Awe Wall in your home to teach your children to value being awe-struck and that feeling connected to something larger than oneself.

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    • All Ages

    Bored Games

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness, Goal Setting/Hope, Resilience, Empowerment

    A great family-fun way to keep your kids busy with things they enjoy that will also enrich their lives.

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    • All Ages

    Controlled Breathing

    Ingredient: Optimism, Resilience, Emotional Awareness

    Build this simple, daily breathing activity into your schedule to feel more relaxed, resilient, and rejuvenated.

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    • All Ages

    Getting A Growth Mindset

    Ingredient: Emotional Awareness, Optimism, Empowerment, Resilience, Goal Setting

    An End-of-Year family ritual for your family to reflect and build upon Fishful Thinking skills.

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    • All Ages

    Joy Multiplier vs. Joy Thief

    Ingredient: Emotional Awareness, Optimism, Resilience

    You're likely very attentive when your child comes to you with a problem, but what about when they come to you with good news?

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    • All Ages

    Empathy Role Playing

    Ingredient: Optimism, Resilience, Goal-Setting/Hope, Empowerment, Emotional Awareness

    Help your children develop empathy through these simple, family-fun role-playing games.

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    • Kindergarten - Grade 2
    • Grades 3-5

    Create a Strength Family Tree

    Ingredient: Optimism, Resilience, Goal-Setting, Empowerment, Emotional Awareness

    Giving children knowledge of their strengths is a great way to empower them. Create a Strength Family Tree together.

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    • Kindergarten - Grade 2
    • Grades 3-5
    • Grades 5 & Up

    Laugh Night

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness

    Teach your children to value and savor positive emotions by creating a ritual that spotlights a positive feeling.

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    • All Ages

    Creating Your Joy List

    Ingredient: Optimism, Resilience, Empowerment, Emotional Awareness

    Encourage your whole family to create and display a list of activities that bring them joy.

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    • Kindergarten - Grade 2
    • Grades 3-5
    • Grades 5 & Up

    Rush Less, Live More

    Ingredient: Optimism, Empowerment

    You can help your family enjoy the benefits of doing less and slowing down by challenging yourself to take a few "long cuts" each week.

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    • All Ages

    Pause for the Positives

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness

    Help your child discover as much as they can about the good things happening in their lives by using open-ended questions that encourage long responses.

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    • All Ages

    Creating Your "Enough List"

    Ingredient: Emotional Awareness, Optimism, Empowerment

    Rather than always focusing on the "ers," like better, stronger, healthier, create a list of items that you and your family already have in abundance.

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    • Grades 3-5
    • Grades 5 & Up

    Bag it Up

    Ingredient: Optimism, Resilience, Hope, Empowerment, Emotional Awareness

    Help your children to take stock of and clean out the "mental clutter."

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    • Grades 3-5
    • Grades 5 & Up

    What would you do?

    Ingredient: Empowerment, resilience, emotional awareness, hope/goal setting, optimism

    Learning how to make good decisions and to problem solve is a way to build mastery skills.

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    • Grades 3-5
    • Grades 5 & Up

    Body Image: My Body Can...

    Ingredient: Optimism, Empowerment

    Explore with your children what they enjoy about themselves and their body—not simply it's appearance, but what it can do!

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    • Grades 3-5
    • Grades 5 & Up

    Positive Habits

    Ingredient: Optimism, Empowerment, Resilience, Goal Setting

    Any "downtime" you have with the kids can be the perfect time to discuss positive changes with your child.

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    • Grades 3-5
    • Grades 5 & Up

    Inspire an Attitude of Gratitude

    Ingredient: Emotional Awareness, Empowerment, Optimism

    Leading by example is a great way to help make expressing gratitude a part of your family's daily life.

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    • All Ages

    Letting go of Grudges

    Ingredient: Emotional Awareness, Optimism, Empowerment, Resilience

    Help your child communicate and work through a grudge with a set of simple circles and a positive attitude.

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    • Grades 3-5
    • Grades 5 & Up

    Praise with Purpose

    Ingredient: Empowerment, Resilience, Optimism

    Challenge yourself to praise not just the moments your child succeeds, but the steps they took to get there.

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    • All Ages

    Slicing the Pie

    Ingredient: Optimism, Resilience

    The goal of this family-fun activity is to help children identify several possible causes of a problem.

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    • Grades 3-5

    Treasures Box

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness

    Work with your child in this family fun activity to decorate a box that is kept on the table you eat at regularly.

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    • All Ages

    Beauty Detours

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness

    At least once a week, take a 5-minute "beauty detour" with your child in this family fun activity.

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    • All Ages

    Favorite Photo

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness

    Find a photograph that captures a happy experience.

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    • All Ages

    In Your Shoes

    Ingredient: Optimism, Resilience

    The purpose of this family-fun game is to help children develop the ability to see a situation from another person's perspective.

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    • Kindergarten - Grade 2
    • Grades 3-5
    • Grades 5 & Up

    Nature Sense Walk

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness

    Pick a park or street in your neighborhood and go on a 15-minute nature sense walk.

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    • All Ages

    Savoring Food

    Ingredient: Optimism

    Select various food/snacks, such as Goldfish® crackers, yogurt or fruit. Eat one of the items you selected and notice all the different tastes and textures.

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    • All Ages

    Savoring Party

    Ingredient: Optimism

    Invite a few other moms and their kids to your house for a "savoring party."

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    • All Ages

    Happiness Scavenger Hunt

    Ingredient: Optimism, Emotional Awareness

    Create a list of simple items or experiences that make you and your child laugh, smile, or that bring a sense of pleasure.

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    • All Ages

    Silver Lining Game

    Ingredient: Optimism, Resilience

    The goal of this family-fun activity is to help children find positive meaning in a negative event.

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    • Kindergarten - Grade 2
    • Grades 3-5
    • Grades 5 & Up

    We-Can Club

    Ingredient: Goal Setting/Hope, Optimism

    Form a We-Can club to help your children make positive changes in your neighborhood.

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    • All Ages

    Finding Meaning

    Ingredient: Optimism, Resilience

    The first, and most important, step in enhancing your family's sense of meaning is to think about experiences in the past that have felt meaningful.

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    • All Ages

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